A weekly visit that became something more

 When I first met Roberto in May 2024 neither of us quite knew what to expect. We had been paired through the volunteer program with a simple but meaningful intention: Roberto was hoping to connect with someone who shared his Italian background. What began as a cultural connection quickly evolved into something far richer - a genuine friendship built on conversation, creativity, and companionship. 

From the very first visit, there seemed to be an immediate rapport between us. We spoke about family, traditions, food, and the familiar rhythms of Italian life that had shaped us both in different ways. Over time, those conversations expanded into something deeper. Now, these visits have become a constant we both look forward to.

What I most enjoy is that Roberto has a remarkable creative spirit. His unit is a testament to this - alive with colour, texture, and the quiet evidence of hours spent immersed in his passions. He enjoys quilting, painting by numbers, and tending to plants in the garden. Whether he’s carefully stitching together pieces of fabric or adding detail to a painting, there’s a sense of focus and pride in everything he creates.

Our time together isn’t just about conversation; it’s about shared presence. Sometimes we talk at length, other times we simply sit side by side while he works on a piece, exchanging the occasional comment or laugh. There’s a quiet value in that kind of companionship - something often overlooked but deeply felt.

In late 2024, we were invited to take part in a video project aimed at encouraging more people to volunteer in the aged care sector. It was a natural extension of what we already share. The video, now available on YouTube titled “Leo & Roberto - Aged Care Volunteer Visitors Scheme - Tabulam & Templer Home for the Aged,” captures a small part of our connection and, hopefully, reflects the impact that even a single visit can have.

Volunteering in aged care is often spoken about in broad terms, but it’s in these individual relationships where its true meaning becomes clear. It’s not about doing anything extraordinary - it’s about showing up, consistently and sincerely.

And yet, there is also a quieter truth that sits alongside the warmth of our visits. While Roberto genuinely enjoys our time together, he has shared that he still deeply misses the presence of a woman in his life. Since his wife passed away several years ago, that particular companionship - the kind built over a lifetime - remains something he feels the absence of. It’s a reminder that while volunteering can bring connection and comfort, it also exists alongside the enduring spaces left by love and loss.

In many ways, my visits with Roberto are simple. But within that simplicity lies something powerful: the reassurance that someone is seen, heard, and valued. And sometimes, that’s exactly what matters most.

Join Us in Making a Difference

Every visit makes a real difference.

Our volunteers play an important role in reducing loneliness and strengthening community connection for older Australians. Through simple, consistent acts of friendship, they help ensure that later life remains filled with meaning, dignity and belonging.

If you are interested in becoming a volunteer and bringing companionship to someone in your community, we would love to hear from you.

Sometimes the most powerful impact begins with something simple.
A conversation.
A smile.
A friendship.